Should Pastors Have Friends in the Congregation?

I was asked this question over Facebook recently. Is it wise for a church leader (whether it be elder, pastor, pastor’s wife, etc.,) to have a close friendship with certain members of the congregation? (someone of his/her same gender). When a person is selective with his/her friendships, and shows more affection, interest, concern, to some…

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The Average Chick-fil-A Generates Double the Sales of McDonald’s, Despite Closing Sundays – Michael Foust

The average Chick-fil-A restaurant generates more than double the revenue of the average McDonald’s restaurant, according to a new Goldman Sachs analysis that also predicted Chick-fil-A has an even brighter future.Chick-fil-A does this despite being closed Sundays. Source: The Average Chick-fil-A Generates Double the Sales of McDonald’s, Despite Closing Sundays – Michael Foust

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Three Lessons to Learn from the Josh Harris Recantation

I wrote most of this blog earlier in the week and I intended to discuss Josh Harris recantation of his views on dating and the purity culture (here). But then, on Saturday, this bombshell hit. Josh Harris, the best-selling author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye and other books, former heir of CJ Mahaney at Covenant…

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Is Disney Anti-Christian?

Disney removed Jesus completely from a story that was all about Jesus. Madeleine L’Engle publicly stated that her Newberry Award-winning novel, A Wrinkle in Time (1963), was about Jesus Christ and her understanding of Christianity. “If I’ve ever written a book that says what I feel about God and the universe, this is it,” L’Engle reportedly…

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We Need More Pastors, Where Are They?

The aging status of the collective group of pastors leading independent Baptist Churches is alarming. This problem is impacting all of broader evangelicalism. Most of our pastors are in their late 50’s and above. A new generation of committed church leaders must rise up and not only carry on the work already established but also…

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The sober-curious movement challenges ‘wine mom’ culture at a time when mothers are drinking more than ever. – The Washington Post

The turning point came at an evening soiree in the middle of December, when Mai Trinh spotted a friend’s luminous face amid a crowd of cocktail-quaffing party­goers.“She stood out — she looked absolutely radiant,” recalls Trinh, 44, a corporate wellness consultant and mom of three in Alexandria. “So I asked her, ‘What’s your secret, what…

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The Ministry of Friendship

The couple showed up out of the blue for an evening service. As I approached them it was easy to tell that they wanted to talk to me but were a little nervous. He grew up in the US, she was a first generation immigrant. They found us through an internet search. After exchanging some…

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Worship is Not Entertainment, Should Christian Music Ever Be?

  I recently had a conversation with a young man preparing for ministry that turned a bit differently than I expected. He casually made the case that based upon his understanding of the Psalms, there is some religious music that is intended for worship and other religious music that is intended to be used outside…

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